How to tell when a guy is really into you.

 

So often as women we are in a position to guess whether or not a guy actually likes us. The number one rule to remember about guys is this: if a guy really likes you he won’t send you confusing messages.  You won’t be wondering what he thinks of you because he will tell you often.  Guys are pretty simple, not at all complex like women.  We are more like onions, layer upon layer of fascinating intrigue. And often times we think men are complex as well.  But that isn’t necessarily so.  When a guy texts you, it is often in simple straightforward language.  Women tend to respond with longer texts giving much more information than a guy needs to know or wants to read. 

So, how can we know when a guy is really into us or has us firmly in the friend category?

Here are the eight tell-tale signs that a guy is interested enough in you to actually want to pursue a relationship.

1. He maintains intense eye contact.  Conversely when a guy isn’t into you, he will hardly make eye contact at all.  Maintaining eye contact is intensely personal and conveys that he wants to know you on a deeper level. 

2. He leans in when he’s talking to you. And when you’re talking to him, he leans his body in your direction. While he’s leaning in when you are talking. He’s telling you he is interested in your like and what you have to say.

3. Just as he leans into what you have to say, he is also personally interested in your wants and desires.

4.  He remembers your birthday without you reminding him.  He knows what kind of movies you like and where you like to eat. Knowing these things about you tells you that he wants to please you because he cares.

5. Guys who are into girls will intentionally break the personal space barrier. They will touch you in appropriate ways indicating that they care and want you to know they don’t mind getting close.

6. Psychologists say that men exhibit behaviors such as touching their face, stroking their beards, running their h ands through their hair when they’re in the presence of females that they like and are attracted to. Just as women twirl their hair or brush their hair back when talking to guys they find attractive, it is because they have a heightened sensation of attraction. 

7. Just as he touches his face or runs his hands through his hair, his pupil will also dilate when he’s talking to you. These are responses to the attraction between you.

8.  Guys who are really into a girl will be the one to initiate contact. They will be the first to text or call to establish communication. 

Guys are pretty open about who they like and dislike. Smart women will be aware of these clues and allow them to guide them wisely in new relationships.

 

 

 

  

 

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